Is it ego ?
We are married since 5 years. We both are working in same field being medical professional and working for long hours in the day like 12-14 hours. During our routine day life arguments we end up in fights and particularly in our arguments my husband never focus on problem he always blamed me for my high voice. But he nevar understands when he ignores my concerns over some matter repeatedly then only I get furious. After an argument he wants to always remain silent, while I try to explain him what concerns me he wants me to forget the thing rather finding solution for it. He doesn't want ti address any problem. He wants to stay ignorant of anything which troubles me.
I am irritated and the got in anger because of this behavior and then he becomes stubborn for any of my explanations and just keep telling that he doesn't know what to do while I am clearly explaining him what I want.
What should I do? How to deal with it? He wants to behave normally after the argument night and forget everything and dont talk about the argument topic, but I always seek a closure of argument by having solution of it, otherwise it keeps bugging me..what should I do ..how do I deal with it. I am not able to reconnect again to him because of these issues
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